| no, not christmas. thats over. its syllabus week. the supposed glorious week before teachers "actually begin to teach", where you're handed your schedule for the coming months and then let out with hours to spare. *insert record scratch* apparently this semester were skipping right on over syllabus week.. and onto *gasp* learning. every single one of my teachers has taught all the way through class and as i find myself here, 10 at night, reading books most professors havent even mentioned and students havent even purchased, i find myself asking... really?
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| that is the question. when it comes to exs (ex boyfriends, ex hookups, ex friends) is it better to look and risk some pain, or to not peek & stay blissfully ignorant. now you may be asking... look at what? really, it could be anything. from facebook to cell phone inboxes, to looking at him/her in class. its a small question that means a lot.
i suppose that circumstances must come into play. if you just broke up with someone (or have been broken up with), the temptation to look is huge. you want to know how theyre doing...what theyre doing...who theyre doing. but by looking, you rish that decent chance that you will see something that hurts. soemthing that stings. something you probably did not want to see. but isnt that what your looking for in the first place? when it comes to matters of the heart... is there ever a right answer? i dont think so. and if youre willing to take the step (or click, or glance) can it be assumed youre not truly over the person? because if youre over them then why would you want to look. call it curiousity, call it fun, but im going to call it something more.
you could even argue that by not looking you may hold just as many feelings. maybe by purposely staying away from the person youre showing just as much hurt/pain. either way i suppose it comes down to- would you rather know & possibly be hurt, or stay in the dark & hope for the best?
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